...A NOTE TO GENTS...

So, i was sitting lazying about and i decided to blog, but i could not think of any thing to blog about. When I asked my roomie, she said i should write a note to the gents.. I went with it, and trust me, I had a lot of fun doing it too. Without much ado, it'll be my  note to the gents.

Dear gents,

There are several things i think you should know.

1. First off, piercing your ears does not make you cool. I mean, I know a lot of dudes that i admire with pierced ears, but if you think you do not feel among, and piercing your ears is gon make you cool, youre just being naiive. Nevertheless, i must confess that this one boy who sat in front of me in class yesterday was wearing stud diamond earrings. (i dont know if the diamonds were real, but i doubt it..lol) It looked amazing! Plus he's a cutie. :-)

2. I love boys.. #yesido. I mean, if I professed my love for women so freely and fondly, you should be worried... and for those who still havent picked up on it, I'm a woman. Anyway, the fact that I love boys does not mean that I am stupid, or that I do not respect myself. I'm honestly not afraid of telling someone that they're cute, or walking up to them an introducing myself. Thing is, I can be as friendly as I want to be with single guys, but once you get wifed, things tend to change a lot. (and by wifed, I mean having a girlfriend.) I'm not going to be a two year old and say we can't be friends because now you have more than just yourself to feel for and to think about, but i'm a girl too, and having other girls being toooo friendly with my man will give me a little cause to worry. (and no, im not hooked, but im allowed some examples right?) Sooooo yh. I guess I am just one to respect peoples relationships. Plus, I definitely do not want to be that girl that a facebook group is made about, or that bitch that's trending on twitter. I got my reputation to protect.. annnddddd ok, enough of this blab. on to the next one.

3. I know that girls can be a little vulnerable and silly when it comes to boys, but honestly, its only some. Fortunately, I'm not one of the some. But don't get me wrong. I've made mistakes in the past, and I sure will make some more mistakes in the future, but you know how they say once beaten twice shy? yup. I learn from them. This is my point. Don't try to tell me you have a girlfriend but its me you love. ooohh yes, im dum enough to believe it aren't I? lol.. too bad.

4. If you have to lie to a girl to get her attention, or to get her to love you, then you're simply a jerk. There's really no two ways about that one. I kinda wish there was. *evil grin*

5. And then, why are you, my friends boyfriend, asking me for my number through a private message? (by private message I mean, facebook inboxing, and twitter DM - ing) That's just not the way to roll. It never has been, and it never will be. If there are no strings attached, I remember having a wall on a facebook, and all you need to do on twitter is to tag me in your post. it's never been that hard. Try it. you'll find out for yourself..

6. Contrary to public opinion, I'm not racist. I can definitely not say that i love all people equally because I'm not Jesus, but I'm def not a demon either. I may have a preference of black men, but my oh my, if you can call 2 "some", then I know some sexy white boys..lol I'm not closed to dating someone because of their skin colour. If you have all i want, (which im beginning to believe in reality doesnt exist), then umm, why not? Besides, if i get married to a white man, my kids will end up having amazing hair. White hair aint perfect. I love my black hair, but trust me that aint perfect too. A combination though? Now that.. is perfect hair.

7. Ok. so I have never been in total support of boys in skinny jeans, but I've also never been in support of boys in jeans that are big enough to fit me in 5 times over. Like, get the memo already. Style has changed, and fashion has definitely moved on. definitely.

8. IF you want to be a man, act like one. Fullstop.

9. There's this thing two of my really good male friends call the "friend zone". It's just that zone you get into when you and a girl become way too much of good friends to date. Now my friends do not seem to be a fan of the friend zone, because as already pointed out, you cant date a girl in that zone. To say the least, I totally agree. If you happen to fall into the "friend zone" with any girl, don't ask her out. There's a high tendency for her to turn you down. And from experience,  theres also a very high tendency that your friendship will flush down the drain.. very fast.

10. No, I'm not a whore. Do not text me at midnight or sometime in the a.m's and tell me that youre somewhere all alone. What am i supposed to do to? GNL man. I'll honestly tell you to go to sleep. no jokes. I'm the exception to the rule of demand and supply.

11. That you cant say another girl is beautiful, attractive, or hot because youre dating is pretty lame. I mean, there are some things to which there is no denying. If someone is beautiful, they are beautiful, and no opinions really change that. My point is, you can appreciate good stuff, but just don't act on it. Like don't say this girl is pretty hot and then try to get her number. Or don't say that girl is attractive and then stare at her till she gets out of your sight. Or don't say that girl is blah blah blah, and then try to get her pin (btw, blackberry's make my stomach turn. i do not like them), or message her on facebook, or plan to hook up with her. It's one thing to appreciate the good qualities of someone, and it's another to act on them. Do not act on the good qualities of someone if you have a girlfriend.

anddd... maybe im tired of writing, soooo...

that's all bout a little thing for the gents.. as i do it..

Shanpepe..xoxo