So there's one thing i absolutely hate with a passion - People imposing thier beliefs on me. I am just going to start by saying, NO ONE, including me, knows it all.
You know how everyone has a different worldview? and different beliefs? yes. I have mine, you have yours. and i think that democracy has given us a gateway to expressing ourselves like we choose, and having our opinions heard. However, i don't think people really understand that it matters how you express your opinion.
This is what im saying. Don't tell me that my favourite rapper sings shit, and that i know nothing about hip hop thats why he's my fav rapper. Like really, if in your opinion he's a shitty rapper, then thats fine, but dont tell me that i dont know anything bout hip hop blah blah blah.. Likewise, if you believe that love is all about lies and deceit, then thats fine. Just dont come telling me that i do not have a man because i can't find one without lies and deceit. Its okay to say that you like cold better than heat. Just dont say that its just because im from someplace where its really hot that i do not understand.
I have my opinions, and i air them in ways that do not offend people or make people look lame and stupid. Do not try impose your opinions on me, or on anyone else. If you believe something, apply it to your life or to your own business. Do not make it a part of other peoples lives or business. Especially when its a negative thing. So because you believe a negative thing you want me to believe it too? Unfortunately, i have no apologies for being an optimist. none at all. I'd rather be an optimist who's sometimes wrong than a pessimist who's always right. Im not denying that things arent always the way they seem, but dont drag me into your pessimism. Or at least dont even try. Save all your shitty talk for something or someone else. If im believeing a lie, let me make my recovery, i don't need your damn help. unfortunately, before you judge me on living a lie, look yourself twice in a mirror. You may be the lie yourself.
I wrote this post honestly very very pissed. SO many people have been talking to me recently like they know it all. SO to all people that feel they know it all, shove your opinions down your throats. I'd like to hear from people who believe that learning is a process, and that we never stop learning. Also, to all you pessimists, don't event talk to me. I'm not interested in sharing in your pessimism. I think GOD is enough reason for me to believe that things in my life will work out, whether its things as little as a speck of dust, or as huge as a mountain.
I think im done expressing myself here. i have homework to do.
oh wait. im not done.
I would also like to say that if you are going to judge me by what i believe, then shove your judgments down your throat as well. I don't judge you because you're a pessimist, even though i think that pessimists are really lame. So dont tell me that you didnt expect this from me, or that i was never like this and have changed. or that this is not me. This is where i will make an apology. Im sorry that you no longer perceive things with clarity.
goodnight.
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