Raise your children with love and guidance

Tarbiyat-e-Aulad said: "The right of your child is that you know that he has emerged from you in this world; his right and wrong are attributed to you. You are responsible of his fine teaching and training, guiding him to his Lord, Almighty and Glorious, and, assisting him to obey Him. Therefore, be sure that if you do a favour to your child, you will obtain it; and if you act viciously against him, it will come back to you."

When a father beats his child it is like putting manure on a young crop; it kills it. Similarity, it should be your aim to display more kindness towards your child than the kindness that he displays towards you. If you scold a child, then leave him room to turn away from his wrong action, so that you do not leave him with obstinacy as his only way out.